Toxic feminity

 Hello smart souls, in today's post I'm going to rant about this so-called "feminism". Before you hate me read this blog completely.

Let's clear one thing first, I'M NOT A FEMINIST. With that being that let the show begin:

A movement that was started for equal rights and equality is sadly transfigured in a man-hating club. The campaign has changed laws in many countries because of its anti-men laws in the name of women protection, men are suffering.

The upbringing of males has created this nonsense that man can never feel pain. And if he does, he is not a man. Like what and why?

The same mindset creates a social fear of being disbelieved or laughed at, Which stops male victims of sexual assault from opening up about their sufferings, encouraging the perpetrators to go on hunting their prey without the fear of being punished. 

India always gets criticized for its terrible treatment of women but they never talk about women harassing men. Like why?

Society makes fun of a man when he says he was harassed. They shut their eyes when it comes to males being harassed. People think only men are perpetrators and they don't get that even men can be harassed. This is so traumatizing, that there are no laws for men who are survivors of harassment.

Thanks to men's rights activists, who scored a noteworthy victory in India when the Supreme Court truly identified them as the victims in the cases of domestic violence. The judges stated that Indian women were filing false claims of domestic violence.

They said, "most of such complaints are filed in the heat of the moment over trivial issues. Women were not visualizing the Implications and consequences of registering criminal complaints against their abusive husbands". They went on to say, "Uncalled for arrest may ruin the chances of settlement". And due to this, the victims appear to be the culprit.

There are many cases in which women use laws as acts of revenge. For instance,

A case from Amity, Noida. Where two girls asked a gang of goons of about 25-30 members to beat up the victims over a lame parking argument but filed a false molestation case on them. Whereas one of the victims has been announced dead and the other is in ICU.  

Women's rights are for protection and these days women use it as a threatening tool, as a shield to make the victims sound like their culprit. A UNO reverse.

The third wave of feminists has forgotten the main point of feminism, GENDER EQUALITY.  

The native feminists never actually addressed themselves as feminists. They just claimed themselves to be "gender equality advocates".

Marry Wollstonecraft, one of the feminist philosophers. never addressed herself as a feminist, but rather as a gender equality advocate or gender rights activist. She never used the term feminism in any of her writings. In fact, no first-wave feminist ever claimed themselves as a feminist. The term feminism originated in the 1890s as a pejorative term to describe pre-suffrage political gender equality advocates.

The word "feminist" and "feminism" was made by a French philosopher, Charles Fourier.

All I'm trying to say is stop focusing on gender. For instance, if a man and a woman are fighting, instead of supporting a woman just because she is a woman, or supporting a man just because he is so. Try to understand the situation, know what happened from both the parties then decide who is wrong and who is right.

In conclusion, all I want to say is focus and promote gender equality, not man-hating mindsets. Women should also be given the same punishment as men who commits the same crime.  And in the name of "feminism", girls just want to wear short clothes or late-night parties and all, which is wrong. Gender equality was not for that purpose. I'm not saying wearing such clothes is a sin or something, I'm saying that "feminism" came into existence for far better reasons, for achieving the right to vote, to be able to participate in political affairs, to follow their profession, etc.

So, instead of wasting this privilege that we have achieved after many people's protests, use it to make their sacrifices and suffering worth it.