VIEWPOINT.👁️👁️

"People see what they want to see and what people want to see never has anything to do with the truth"😇

"Viewpoint"-it just means perspective but, once a person changes his perspective and mindset the whole WORLD looks way more beautiful than now. ☺️You can think I'm just trying to phrase another quote but believe me in this blog I will show you how the most common method (which I use😅) which can make your life changed or at least better than before.🤓

So, decision making is the most important thing in our lives. I use a very easy trick to differentiate between the GOOD and the BAD. The trick is related to the comparison🤔. No, I don't mean to compare yourself with others, I mean compare the pros and cons of certain things to make better decisions. I'm still experimenting with this trick on human beings,😂 but this trick will definitely help you in taking some important decisions👍.

So, I call this trick as THEORY OF SIMILE. It is a very simple trick to understand as well as to implement. 

So, the first thing you have to know is everything in this whole universe has both advantages and disadvantages. Clear?👍... For example smartphones📱, it very useful, it makes our day-to-day life very easier. But it also has it's own disadvantages like playing games for hours and not focusing on our studies or career😅.

Likewise, everything in this universe ever created has its own pros and cons. So, how we term certain things as that is good 👍or that is bad👎?. Here comes the theory of simile which means comparison. Compare both pros and cons of that certain thing and the one which has fewer cons and more pros, it is termed to be good👍 and if it has fewer pros and more cons it is termed to be bad👎. And one condition, it also depends on how effective the pros and cons are. 

To give you an idea, let's say, online classes. We can study from home, can be safer, you can study from where ever you are or however you want. You won't be exposed to pollution. Mother nature is safe, wildlife is safe, reduces global warming and lot more😊....and to point out the cons, students are not able to understand, interact with teachers, can't have a movement in our body(exercise), technical issues, few don't even have a smartphone, students are exposing more towards smartphone leading to effect their eyes and health, teachers are being pranked by students...and so on😅.

Here, in this case, pros are eventually more but we can't term online classes are good, because the effect of cons is more, like what is the use of it if students are not able to understand. Right?.. but if a student is fully focused and concentrated he/she might understand but it is not possible since a person can't be fully focused and concentrated each and every day. There will be times when he/she might be ill or not in good mood.

Leave it since it's a debatable topic. But did you understood? If yes read on.🤓

The next step to implement the theory of simile, never ever compare things/people based on our emotions, try to be logical or at least reasonable.

Imagine there is a friend of mine. I hate her very much (let her be girl A) because she's too girly or the way she talks/behaves...etc in the end I hate her. A person (let be person B)comes to me and says "girl A is very good, she's excellent, very friendly, smart, beautiful.." and as I said I hate her so I started to say 😱"what??! You are saying that girl A is a very good girl!!. Wait a second I guess you don't know about her character, she is beautiful because she wears a lot of makeup to impress boys, she's not smart she cheats on every exam, she is a very bad girl..🥴.."

And now, to be honest, it is not a proper way to judge someone, as I was comparing her pros and cons from my emotional viewpoint she is bad, but if I had compared her pros and cons from a logical viewpoint girl A is really a "good" girl. And remember everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.

There are simple solutions for most of the major problems but all that is required is a change in point of view.  Like,  to improve relationships, to be happy, to be kind to others, to live life to the fullest, to live without regrets and arguments, and plenty of other benefits.

I guess that's a lot already, so guys meet you all again with some new and useless tricks or info that you already know. Until then, keeping living.😜and feel free to comment on what's your VIEWPOINT about this blog😜😂

kk bye, take care...😜😜🙄