Opinionated: Introvert Vs Extrovert

 Hello there smartypants, how are you? In today's Opinionated episode I will share my opinion about "Introvert, extrovert and ambivert", sounds good. so let's hop right into it.

For some odd reasons, this was the most recommended topic, so here it is mon amie.

In my opinion, extrovert, introvert, and ambivert, these titles are like report cards. Report cards represent our intelligence, whether accurate or not. It tells the other person about our intelligence and what to expect, which may differ from what it actually is.

Similarly, "extrovert, introvert, ambivert" are just titles to let other people know who I averagely am. 

In my opinion, people whose energy is drained when they socialize, are titled introverts, people who are energized when they socialize, are titled extroverts, and people who are in between are tiled ambivert.

Introverts don't have to hate themselves just because they are introverts, and the same goes for an extrovert. Every human being's main purpose is to ENJOY, no matter the way they do it. 

Here's a quote that I personally love, "Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to."

I have an introverted friend, who hates herself and feels guilty to spend time enjoying ALONE because she thinks that she is missing out on having actual fun with others. She went out of her way to attend a party and returned exhausted, hating herself even more. She felt lonely at the party, she embarrassed herself [according to her], and whatnot.

Look we are humans not machines, some days we enjoy talking to people, and other days we don't. We have moods and feelings which are constantly changing. 

To conclude, in my opinion, we shouldn't get so worked up about whether we are introverts or extroverts, or believe the myths which say, only extroverts have fun, or if you enjoy the solitude that means you're depressed. Sometimes I want to be alone, and being alone doesn't mean I will cry. 

Every person knows a different version of you, for some, you are an introvert, studious worm, and for some, you are an extrovert, party freak, but at the end of the day, you are just you, enjoying in different ways.

So, that will be all for today, my opinion might not make any sense to some readers, but it is what it is, and I have stopped getting worked up on them a long time ago. I will publish a researched-based post about the same soon, stay tuned!

Feel free to share your opinion in the comment section below. Peace out.<3