The bages🎒 and boxes📦.

"If we learn to understand each other, we will have a better understanding of ourselves."😇

Hi guys👬 and girls👭, today I'm going to share one unique theory. This info will help you understand people better👍. It's about "how to understand BOYS👬 and GIRLS👭."

So, the theory is GUYS👬 are made of boxes📦📦 , and GIRLS👭 are made of a big bag🎒. Clear?!

Some might be thinking "what the hell🙄. How can human beings be made from boxes and bags😒"

It's not in a physical manner but more logical🤔. This is just an imaginary way to understand boys and girls. You will understand that further.

Let's understand a little bit more😁.

As mentioned guys are made of boxes📦📦, they have a box for every aspect of life like a box for school📦, sports📦, hobbies📦, family📦, friends📦, playing video games📦 and etc.

When something goes wrong in a guy's box📦, he can jump out of that box and move to another box📦 and he can leave that problem for a while😯.

For example: If a guy had a bad day at school, he can hop out of that box and go into his sports box or any other box📦👉📦 and can forget everything that happened at school that day for a while, until he jumps back into the school box📦. 

For a guy having different boxes allows him to manage his life in a way that makes sense for him😇. Most guys would be stressed if they have to manage 2 or more boxes at the same time. Dealing with one box at a time helps him to have a less stressful life😉. There are different levels of how a guy handles his boxes. Some boxes can hold more than one thing. All guys are different but if you think about it, it's a good way to describe a GUY.☺️

Now let's talk about GIRLS. Girls are made of one bag🎒. Every aspect of a girl's life is in this one bag. Aspects like school, friends, family, sports, etc. Every aspect of a girl's life is mixed together in this one bag🎒. And when something goes wrong at school, it's difficult to forget about it because she has to deal with it along with all the other things in her bag. 

Sometimes she has multiple problems going on in her bag and it's very hurtful🥺 for a girl when someone says to her "just forget about it" or "don't worry about it", because girls can't forget about the problem. It's all mixed in her bag and until she fixes she won't be happy😟. The bag can cause a lot of emotional challenges for a girl.

But a bag can also be a good thing because of the bag girls are able to MULTITASK. For example, mom can be at home cooking food👩‍🍳 and she is doing laundry🧺, talking on the phone📞 at the same time have a child playing🤾‍♂️ in the other room and also watching sath nibhana sathiya😂 and most girls/women can keep track of it all because they have learned how to manage all the aspects of their bags🎒.

Girls like be organized when it comes to their bags, when there is an unplanned event that comes up🥂 or an event she was expecting is canceled❌, it throws things in chaos inside her bag and it affects other things in her bag which causes confusions😵, frustration😠, anger😡, stress😥 and a lot of other emotions like I mentioned earlier. If your mom comes home from work and had a frustrating day, try to be sensitive to the chaos she is been experiencing in her bag or maybe offer to help her with cooking food or do something that will cheer her up.😜

Guys can multitask but it's not as easy for them because of their various boxes📦. If a guy is trying to cook food👨‍🍳, he is in his cooking box and he can't focus on anything else during that time. Like when your dad is watching news or sports📺, he is in his news or sports box📦 and that's one of the worst times for you to try to talk to him because he won't be focused on anything you are saying. So it's better for you to be patient and wait until the news is over or for an ad break and let him get into his family box📦, so he can listen better.😄

The best thing that a guy can do for a girl, who is having a bad day or dealing with something difficult in her bag is for him to say "I don't understand what you are going through but I'm here to listen and support you".  And the best thing that a girl can do for a guy is to be patient and understanding and not always take things the wrong way, just because he is in a box that doesn't favor her.🤷‍♀️

If your brother, sister, teacher, or whoever you come in contact with has an issue in her bag🎒 or his box📦, be kind, sensitive to that issue, be patient, and try to understand😇.

There has to be equal compromise by both guys and girls to try and understand each other, which helps you all to live a happy life.🤗

And not all the girls and guys are like this, but I have found this information to be true in most cases. And it has helped me get a better understanding of guys and girls altogether.😎🤓

I guess that's a lot already😅, so guys and girls meet y'all again with some new and useless tricks or theory😂 that you already know🤣. Until then, keep smiling😀. And feel free to comment on what do you think about this concept🤔. Do you agree with it or not?.👍

goodbye👋, take care. We will meet soon.🤗😎